Monday, January 22, 2007

Complicit


When you find out your friend is cheating on their mate what do you do? I'm conflicted right now and I rather not know it's happening. I'm not friends with the mate but I do have respect for the person. It's hard for me to sit back and just watch. I really wish the person was smart enough to keep it on the hush ( i can't say DL anymore). Actually I think they tried to but I believe the person they are cheating with needs validation and keeps doing things in front of other people. I plan to do nothing because I already know shit will hit the fan because one of the people in this scenario is crazy...off their rocker. I just wish I wasn't being made to be complicit. When their mate comes to town I have to lie (by omission) like things are all good. I'm surprised that this makes it uncomfortable as it does.

3 comments:

rashad said...

You really can't say anything, but it is tough. I told my brother that if he ever cheated on his wife, I'd wouldn't tell her, but I'd makes his life a living hell, and then he'd feel guilty enough to tell on his own.

A Beautiful Life said...

That's a tough one. The sad thing is that she might already know. I probably wouldn't say anything

A Beautiful Life said...

I meant to say she or he might already know